“You Should Have Been a Little Girl” (The 40-Year Belief)

🎯 At age 3, Will heard his dad say 7 words that ran his life for the next 40 years.

"You should have been a little girl."

Everyone laughed.

Will didn't.

What a 3-year-old heard was: they didn't want me.

So his whole life became about proving he was the best. Ribbons. Awards. Bigger wins.

🎧 Episode 258 of High Performance Longevity with ontological coach Will Steel, former RAF pilot turned executive coach.

We get into:

✅ How one childhood moment writes a 40-year belief script
✅ Why affirmations can't touch what ontological work can
✅ The exact way to catch yourself mid-loop

🔁 Share this with someone who's been chasing "the best" their whole life

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